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Trans Swimming
Trans Swimming

Monday, 12-10-2026, 13:00

Amsterdam, Amsterdam

A safe, enclosed swimming session for transgender and non-binary individuals, hosted by a transgender lifeguard and a non-binary person in Amsterdam.

Froukje - Album Release Show
Froukje - Album Release Show

Monday, 12-10-2026, 19:00

Melkweg (MAX), Amsterdam

Froukje celebrates the release of her new album 'Kijk Je Naar Mij?' with two exclusive shows at the Melkweg.

Queer Book Club: Confessions of a Mask
Queer Book Club: Confessions of a Mask

Monday, 12-10-2026, 19:30

Centrale Bibliotheek, DOK B, The Hague

Join the Queer Book Club to discuss Yukio Mishima's classic novel, 'Confessions of a Mask', in a thoughtful and welcoming space for LGBTQIA+ literature enthusiasts.

Tuesday
Coward | Pink Film Days Monthly Special
Coward | Pink Film Days Monthly Special

Tuesday, 13-10-2026, 18:30

Het Ketelhuis, Amsterdam

Lukas Dhont (Girl, Close) returns with Coward: a breathtaking love drama about two boys who find each other in the horrors of the First World War.

2QTs Beyond the Binary
2QTs Beyond the Binary

Tuesday, 13-10-2026, 19:00

Time Window, Rotterdam

A support group for trans, genderfluid, non-binary, agender, and questioning individuals to come together, talk, and share stories.

Cabaret
Cabaret

Tuesday, 13-10-2026, 20:00

DeLaMar Theater, Amsterdam

Chantal Janzen returns to the theater after ten years as Sally Bowles in a daring new version of Cabaret! In 1930s Berlin, a mysterious master of ceremonies welcomes you to the dark but decadent Kit Kat Club, where Sally is the star.

I'll be your daddy
I'll be your daddy

Tuesday, 13-10-2026, 20:30

Zaal 3, The Hague

A steamy hot crowd. Tight beats and bald heads. Welcome to a performance where life is a party and parenthood is reinvented.

Coming Up
Amsterdam
Paris Jackson
Paris Jackson

Wednesday, 14-10-2026, 19:30

Paradiso - Upstairs Room, Amsterdam

With a clear vision, an open heart and a guitar in her hand, Paris Jackson shows just how personal alternative rock can sound, writing honest, relatable songs that are both vulnerable and powerful.

Chess Beginner Lesson
Chess Beginner Lesson

Wednesday, 14-10-2026, 19:45

KLUP, Amsterdam

A free lesson for beginner chess players covering discovered attacks and X-Rays, with a Q&A session with Coach Dave.

Piaf
Piaf

Wednesday, 14-10-2026, 20:30

DeLaMar, Amsterdam

The impressive musical about the life and death of the legendary Edith Piaf. Follow her story as she reflects on her life with four characters who left an indelible mark on her existence.

Utrecht
Club Fataal
Club Fataal

Saturday, 24-10-2026, 23:30

EKKO, Utrecht

After several sold-out editions of their pop-up bar concept, Café Fataal is ready to take over the night. This recurring initiative offers lesbian queer people in Utrecht an inclusive, accessible, and safe(r) space to meet.

Zou Je Van Mij Houden
Zou Je Van Mij Houden

Wednesday, 28-10-2026, 20:30

Stadsschouwburg Utrecht, Utrecht

In Dutch. A personal performance by artist Leendert Vooijce exploring gender identity, masculinity, and femininity through a blend of poetry, theater, and visual arts.

The Hague
City Walks: The Hague's Queer History Summer 2026
City Walks: The Hague's Queer History Summer 2026

Friday, 16-10-2026, 18:00

Haags Historisch Museum (Meeting Point), The Hague

Join a two-hour walking tour to discover The Hague's rich queer history, activism, and emancipation. Guides share stories and invite participants to share their own experiences.

Queer Friday The Hague
Queer Friday The Hague

Friday, 16-10-2026, 20:00

COC Haaglanden, The Hague

Discover the cozy atmosphere at the COC Café. Start your weekend with inclusivity, networking, and meeting new people in a welcoming environment.

Orpheus
Orpheus

Wednesday, 21-10-2026, 20:00

COC Haaglanden, The Hague

A discussion evening for people struggling with homosexual, lesbian, or bisexual feelings within their heterosexual relationship, offering a listening ear and shared experiences.

Rotterdam
Co-working thursday
Co-working thursday

Thursday, 15-10-2026, 10:30

Queer Rotterdam, Rotterdam

Join fellow queer people for a co-working day. A quiet space to work with free coffee, tea, and wifi is provided. Feel free to join for as long as you want.

Board Game Night!
Board Game Night!

Thursday, 15-10-2026, 19:00

Time Window, Rotterdam

Join us for a night of fabulous fun, laughter, and strategy at our Queer Board Game Night! Bring your favorite games or dive into our collection.

Other cities
The Sex Sisters Game Show
The Sex Sisters Game Show

Wednesday, 14-10-2026, 20:30

USVA Theater, Groningen

In their cheerful theater lecture 'The Sex Sisters Game Show,' quiz questions fly by at a rapid pace. An evening that will change your sex life forever.

Rainbow Café Uithoorn
Rainbow Café Uithoorn

Thursday, 15-10-2026, 20:00

Café the River, Uithoorn

Come by for an evening full of meeting people, coziness, and a nice atmosphere.

Rainbow Café
Rainbow Café

Thursday, 15-10-2026, 20:00

STADSKANT, Gouda

A cozy get-together for LGBTQIA+ individuals and allies for conversation, games, drinks, connection, and friendship in a safe and respectful environment.

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